Taking a breather...



So true...*sigh*

Some things are just not in our control...

She found what she was looking for. It was not a guy, it was not love, it was not a pair of sick Louis Vuitton heels. She found herself...and that is enough for her right now.

A time for some introspection.

It feels good to be back! A lot of time and effort has been invested in these exams, anyway I am not going to blabber on about how tertiary life has had its hold on me for the past couple of weeks. Instead I've been doing a lot of thinking and some introspection lately. I am really at good place. The actions of those around me do not shake me up as much as they used to. Their actions towards me, and the actions they perform which act to hurt me or marginalise me only puts them lower on my list of priorities. I have learned. I have learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just won't care back. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. I've learned that life is a boomerang - our thoughts, deeds, and words return to us sooner or later with astounding accuracy. I've learned that it is hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice, and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe. I am now beginning to fall out of a friendship which I have been in, for a very long time. But you know what? It feels just fine..sometimes we hold on for too long, it does not become worth it anymore.

Until then.

One Love.

Lee.